2010年7月19日星期一

Looking forward to Melbourne Trip =)

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Melbourne, This coming THURSDAY!! Until 4th of Aug~ Yeeeaah!! =)

The places we are going to visit are:

(1) Sovereign Hill - Gold Mining Place
(2) Brighton Beach + Frankson Beach
(3) Gippsland
(4) Wilson promontory
(5) Botanic Garden
(6) Great Ocean Road
(7) Philips Island
(8) Mount Dandenong
(9) Puffing Billy
(10) Carribean Garden Market
(11) Yarra Valley
(12) Dockland Waterfornt

and so on..more on scenery places..Thanks keekeng for planning these.. =D

2010年7月16日星期五

Bye

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这位7年来的朋友,总是在我最困难最无助时出现..从我小带到我大,教会我很多东西,过后却狠心被我抛下的朋友..已经飞到Brisbane,Australia去了~

从何所起呢?就是我From1,他Form3时..在一个偶然的机会相遇~我印象最深刻的生活营相识..初二我的几何代数频频不及格,是他放学,星期天来宿舍帮我免费补习补到数学科进步神速到老师都不相信,从而帮我建立好数学科的基础..初三因为统考PMR搞到我压力到不行,是他想尽办法令我开心起来..高一为我在宿舍搞一个很特别的生日会,还有带我找人生中第一份工作..高二我狠心抛下他,可是却得到他的宽恕..高三失恋时,幸亏有他的安慰才让我好过..直到今天,我们还是好朋友~

7年了,他总是在最紧急关头出现..当时他真的是我的“宝葫芦”,替我解决所有东西,并且把我带大~他是个很善良的人,可惜人善被人欺,至今他还是找不到他能偶尔依靠的人..所谓朋友,我觉得就是这样子的了..想哭时,能依靠的肩膀,能倾诉的对象,能不顾形象地发泄~可惜,我却从来帮不上他什么,因为在他眼中,我永远是个小妹妹~

他已经到澳洲升学去了..走之前的前10天还是我帮他倒数他才知道离开的日子将近~当时我还以为可以跟他拍张照片留恋,哪里知道最后还是没有做到,因为我还以为10天内还有见面的机会,我就没有好好把握那天的机会..现在真的后悔了~

我深信明年一定还有机会的..因为..他新年会回来~希望一切顺利.. =)

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身边的朋友有得飞就飞..以后我就有世界各地的朋友了咯..去旅行方便很多,找朋友带路嘛~去澳洲有企钦、文俊、燕仪去香港有健聪、湘莹、斌祥、惠霖、荣君去台湾有豪耀去中国有家豪去英国有宇轩去美国有健灵......省回一大笔导游费!=P

不过现在还是要面对分离的伤感..幸亏我们都有skype! =P

所以......以后要环游世界!!!

2010年7月6日星期二

The way to survive LDR =)

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How to survive the LDR? It may look simple, but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more than your effort.. =)

The very first thing you have to do is establish an effective communication channel. Skype call is the most convenient way i think..You can see his face expression while talking to you. Uhm..This is the most often way i used to do, but not now. Phone call is another channel to communicate with your love one if his/her area doesn't have any internet connection. Try to shorten Your distance as well..Our way to communicate each other is......SECRET =D

2nd, Plan to meet each other. Theres nothing more important than this~ This will help both of you and your love one to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart, like NOW.. The anticipation or desire of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement + hope in your LDR..DEC DEC.. =)

3rd, Build hobby that you can both share. Both of you will have something to share or discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Uhm..We only chit-chat about our family, friends, Uni, our past as well and so on. Sometimes I will look forward to the World Cup Fifa results because of him..He likes Football very much.. xP

4th, Surprise your partner. Occasionally surprise your partner with cards, letter and gifts. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending an unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your LDR regardless how far apart, like what he did, The postcard he send to me every week.. =)

5th, Capture and share that interesting moment. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance. I only used to do this with my buddy in other country, but not him. We seldom share our photo. We will try to work on this when he go back to his Uni @ minnesota.. =)

Theres many other way to survive a LDR. Believe yourself, believe your partner.. =D